Fast fading time.

I can remember a time where values and respect and the support of two or more adults stood as cement when it came to rearing and disciplining adolescents, I am now sadly witnessing that way of life's structure fast fading away in many families. There was a time when a family unit was held together by the adults structuring what was to be and not to be in their house/home, where there was not a two family head there were always a wise adult in either the person of grandparent or Aunt/Uncle. How is it that most are of this mind-set you have to be your kid friend and understand and agree with their way for their path toward life because things are different now (I give them that for truth; those of us that should have the guts and sense to stand as mentor and leader have change to weak and convenient agreement person's). When I see how easy it is for families and marriages to be torn by way of kids having their way allowed by one of the two that should stick together in decision making siding with a kid that have not the knowledge to dress themselves properly and or respect those that are their purpose for being; it to me is evidence of a fast fading time, there was a time when the adult/adults regulated the time and places where a kid that resided in their house/home would be allow to go and or be with and know and not wonder where they were. How is it that one can allow any young person to bring someone in their house/home and feel there is en need for there to be questioning of this person because you don't want to embarrass your kid (what rock is that written under?) fast fading time.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
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