Willingly accept the fall-out for purpose.

Those of us that for what ever reason whom involve ourselves in the life's of others for the purpose of enhancing or paving the path toward what we may believe to be good and productive living. We must willing accept the possibilities for heart felt pain by reason of some at an appointed time deviating and or accusing us of things that we couldn't or wouldn't allow to seed in our thoughts, I have, and over the years because of going through so many different outcomes resulting from this avenue in life what I think to be my current time for purpose. There comes a time when one must and I guess for survival in sustaining in place believed to be purpose, use the holes which are caused from back stabbing an all other ways of negative feedback to be a means of air conditioning for the heart lol!!. willingly accept the fall-out.





Written by: Coach James Joseph.


"Copyright 6-10-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Domain of desire (will it cause the loosing of your grip).

There were these two ( Male/female) who lived in this jungle, and as they were growing up they were instructed by this great hunter and guide for knowing the ways of all the animals and paths for travel and non travel. One evening while waking with him down a path along side of a quick sand pit one notice this tree with a small thin cord hanging just out of arms reach from the pit, and also notice so many different animals and other's resembling themselves and some who had great physical structure who were reaching up for the cord but the weight and dampness of the mud in the pit prevented them from grasping it, and one of them asked the guide what was the meaning of the tree and short thin cord and why were so many people in the quick sand pit struggling along side all of those animals both good and bad? He responded; the tree as you can see is rooted on solid ground and it's strong branches extends both east and west, and the thin cord was put there by themselves on something already strong enough to sustain any weight and shade (just below and on solid ground) desire, and the people you saw in the pit were holding on to the weak cord for reaching but fell into the domain of their desires.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.

"Copyright 6-5-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

You know who you are!

This is specifically written to those of you who for what ever reason now find yourselves angry and are currently hateful of me, what ever the reason for your feeling my notes and blogs are in some way specifically targeting you, as I've said before; my writing are that of my life's experiences and or convictions, and in no way a means for disrespecting or any other negative gesture toward anyone in particular. I willingly open myself up as for being a target for your electronic sarcasm and mental anger until there has been for you sufficient venting of your feeling for the need for targeting me with your attacks for what ever reason. God! Bless!!

Not even hafe the distance.

Good parent/parents and mentor can see what it is that one can be if stayed on the path for life's travel, but there are some who detour at the point of a quarter of a mile traveled.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-5-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Which way is it tilting?

A certain young man whom after every summer break while he was attending college would go to his grandfather's place in the country. Doing his senior year one of his friends asked could he come along so he could also speak with his grandfather about the ways of life. Upon their arrival the grandfather greeted the both and said which way is it tilting, the other young man puzzled by this saying asked the grandfather to explain, he chuckle,, and then asked the young man to sit in front of this great big old round mirror. He asked the young man to picture in his mind while looking in the mirror the good and the bad done to himself by others he trusted and are associated with, he then said to him picture this balancing scale one being your choices one being persons who love you and exhibited it by morally disciplining and supporting you in what ever way, if you were to honestly rewind your mind back three to five years to the day who would prove to be the one averaging the most favorable doing of what to be loving and good in your life, which way is it tilting?

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-4-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Pool of many colors.

This elementary school class out of a little country town was on this field trip where they visited this home in the city that had this big swimming pool and the waters were of many colors, the owner of the home seeing the puzzled look on the teacher and students faces asked,, is there a problem, the teacher responded; how is it that this pool has so many different colors? the owner responded; Many out there in society male/female have caused themselves a lot of hardship and or miseries by reason of their decision making and or associations for what ever reason, and now are seeking a place to cry, so every other day a bus load comes over and they are allowed to do so in that pool.

Written by: James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-1-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Something to think about huh!

When being young an of the ability to have dreams , desires, goals and all that is only possible when one has life, lets not forget someone gave you that life (something to think about huh!). Goals, desire and dreams are only attainable when there is someone who willingly sacrifices his/her immediate cares and concerns for the attaining of yours (something to think about huh!). when on the path of journey toward your dream, desire, goal some one had to labor and pay for the existence of the material you're traveling on (something to think about huh!). while in your hot pursue of those things wanted most someone has to be there for guidance and support (something to think about huh!). If that same parent/guardian who nursed, loved and care for you was of the ability to do so through out the rough times and at this what you might say place of instance attainment for wisdom where you're now smarter then them (something to think about huh!). New friends and associates now in your life and only by reason of way guided by the one you now disrespect, dislike and blame for what ever and siding against them (something to think about huh!). Now that you have come to the end of their so call knowledge for guiding or instructing you, and they even with the love that's encased in their hearts now allows you to travel on into your newly crowd of yes men/women advisers, by the way who aren't in the same city, state or place you are (something to think about huh!).



Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-1-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."