Done in by their on weapon.

A young lady was speaking with her grandparent concerning why some people change toward those that's done good by them and why they do their best to degrade them verbally with others, her grandparent reply; when anyone target's those that are doing what's proven to be good an honest toward them or others, and they seek to cause them harm of any kind by lying to others as reason for trying to destroy their reputation because of dis-agreement an or dis-like, they themselves will fall victim to the weapon (tongue) they've chosen for attacking the intended victim, the grandparent added, those that are doing whats good an fair toward others should expect to be attack by evil, even from some of those you are trying to help, but no weapon form against you can be prosperous, that same weapon is some how use against the owner.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-30-2011  James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Up-root.

There is a medicine for what is and with out doubt has to be dealt with, that being lives hidden in lies and encased in bodies of cosmetic (cover up) stature, there are so many of us that for what ever reason carry around enormous burden which causes us to live and act below our intended purpose, we aren't able to accept or give that which is real and because of the weight from this misery which we ourselves know exist deep down in our souls even though we mask it with our cosmetic life style, even with the evidence or our not being able to in timely manner sustain in relationship or domain in places (job/place, where resident) we stay this course which is destine for UN-happiness,ruin and potential destruction for ourselves and those we deceive by reason of us being in this state. I believe for it to be possible for correcting or putting in place that which has so many trapped in this realm, there has to be the realizing that stepping into truth is and the only way (medicine) for cutting out the root of this so unnecessary evil.

Written by James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-29-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Then and now.

There was a time when neighborhood streets were used for water sport, community football games, skate mobile, foot races and jump rope competition and children marching beating on garbage can tops while creating their on neighborhood parades, now those same streets or being use for immature minded persons (young & old) for speeding, drive by shooting, drug dealing spots (while park along curve), young people being chased and gun down, small children being exhibited in inappropriate dance gesture coached by their young parent and sometimes accompany in such activity, most neighborhood streets may bear the same name but the activities of this time has definitely changed.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-28-2011 James Joseph, "All rights reserved."

In a bad place.

When one is so entrenched in lying as being a common way for communication and is now themselves believing it to be true, he/she has enter into a state of need for concern and hopefully acceptance to the help of those that realize the danger of them being in such a bad place (mentally Un-aware).

Written by; Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-28-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

The other side of the nickle.

It's fast coming time where we who for what ever reason that knows not things are changing will witness or has UN-knowingly witness the evidence of this change by seeing the way life is being shifted from it's commonality, there is now those that are trying to hold on to things, people, places and anything else tangible to what one believe to be his/her soul possession, Let me give you some facts you can't dispute; Nature is causing a shift in boundaries (places) and greed and all other evil perpetrated against the owner/owners has been resulting in incarceration of the violator, those  that believe themselves to be wise are being confused by their own so called genius, you can only surf over a wave head on when the wind has not release it's full strength, there has now been a changing in the wind and He (God) that originated and controls it has change it's blowing. There is now a change at the door of life which will and has puzzled many,  I believe for one to be able to understand or be mentally and or physically sustained in this time of shifting is for to attach themselves to those that have for what ever reason been already tested in or instructed through wisdom for such time as this, the coin has been flip and is now on the other side of the nickle.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-27-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Reason for.

I would like to publicly thank God,  my daughter and her husband for allowing such a blessing to come into this world and I pray that they and all that will some how play a tangible part in her ( Smile's) life through out her rearing and journey toward her purpose destiny will be those that has attached themselves to God's way for living and doing things. I find myself to be blessed with such an magnificent gift (jewel) in the form of my granddaughter (Smiley) and with the inclusion of my so many other  great and grandchildren (yes I did say great and others), the best part about this recent blessing, I can use her to make the others jealous and walk in line, lol!!, yes; grandparent's do take these advantages lol!!, Those of you out there that has been privileged with the blessing of family, I say to you; do your very best to be the person that loves, care and protect them to the best of your ability , even if it means giving your life, If we would accept the true meaning of family we will know there is no other greater blessing.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-26-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Get out of His (God) way.

I must say even doing my young age and up into the current, I've yet to see any that hasn't been recipient of the consequences concerning their actions or decisions made against others rather they be good or bad (including myself). When anyone think they want be held accountable for what ever wrong they purposely do toward others they are sadly mistaken and living in a realm of deceptive atmosphere which is the soul reason for what we see today in these believed to be non -accountable life styles and UN-Godly mind-sets, I 've also learned over the years and through obedience to those who were much wiser then myself to not try and return what ever wrong done you back toward those that targeted you, because you then allow yourself to either get caught up in situation that can cause you even more hurt/misery then they can ever cause, and it also Gets in God's way for handling it in the way only He knows how for resolve, I believe that when one is going through the what ever storms life has in store for each and every one of us, there should be an willingness to ride it out or place yourself under the authority of obedience to those that knows the path and person (God)  in charge for purpose.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-23-2011. James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

What puporse have you align yourself to?

If you have any knowledge about the actual mechanics of life you would realize there's but only two paths for purpose, one being  the wish that your life be good and abundantly prosperous and the other path; your being seek out for target of ruin, destruction and death.

written by Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-21-2011 James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

Align yourself with those who really know God.

There are so many getting caught up on the bad side of what I see today to be twisted times, It has to or should cause you some concern about the way things and some people now are, reason being; their involvement and or willing acceptance of being hard heartily can and has caused fall out which effects or potentially target all of us in some tangible way, those of us who are not acceptance to this mind-set and for what ever reason struggle to understand a way to combat against this, I suggest you seek out those who know who God truly is and are of the knowledge and ability to talk with Him concerning and or instruct you in how to for combating against, and not in any way yourselves be deceived into mentally domain in these twisted ways for journey through life. I really believe that their isn't any who possess common sense isn't in some way disturb by what is happening in our homes, community's and Country in the current, we need to pray for the continual sustaining of those that know who God really is and align ourselves under their tutoring and be about the business of combating against this craziness.

Written by; Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-20-2011 James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

Wisdom.

The law of life gives one place for resting in an right answer (place of truth), and many places are given for stopping in an wrong answer.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-19-2011 James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

What other way is there.

There is with out doubt but two avenues in life which paths will be traveled while one is alive,  the avenue for actual necessity and the other of want which is generated by desire, and neither has an exiting accept for by way of the other..

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 1019-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

There's freedom in truth.

If most people was to go and find a place of quiet with it just being themselves in that space, for about two days an open up their mind to all they believe to be cause for their being or not being where they wish to be, reflect back on all of the lies, truths and what ever other reason for being in their current state, what do you suppose they would uncover, and if this was you (including myself); could you honestly reveal how much was caused by you and not those you blamed?

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-18-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

NSF (insufficient funds).

I at times find myself  on the verge of getting a little angry about the out come of what I think to be a no brainier concerning the time and effort I put toward others lives, who for what ever reason don't seem to care or appreciate my sacifarcies and commitments even sometimes at the expense and time it takes from my family, and this has and can caused one to want to throw in the tower and return the gestures back toward those you really love and care for, being the man I am and because of the wisdom and support I've attained over the years through trials and tribulation I bring myself to the realization that I myself was once with out the knowledge and or wisdom for being able to appreciate an understand when others were doing their best toward good for me, I guess I can sum it up to as not having a required amount (enough sense) in the bank making it NSF ( insufficient funds), thanks to God and with the inclusion of my wife which gets only part of the credit for sometimes keeping me on point (remember I said only part!) lol!!, I usually get back on track and continue on what I believe to be my path for purpose.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-17-2011. "All rights reserved."

A train can't travel any place with out being based on a track.

Lets say that we who perceive ourselves to be smart and is with out question knowledgeable about every thing we need to know concerning the way and actualities of life, if a train can't travel any place with out being based on a track, how is it that an engine regardless of it sizes strength and beauty can ever get even a half a mile without wiping out what ever is in it's reckless path and the destruction of it also, if those of us that think we are with out need of nature's way for travel to places that can only be gotten to by God's design,, are sadly mistaken; if there was not the female (track) how would it even be possible for a man (train) to be place on the track when there has never been an entrance through a tunnel (women's womb), if the train has being privileged (Blessed by God) to travel the track and the conductor (common sense) knows not how to travel at the proper speed for carefully arriving to set destination (destiny point) all that's being pulled by the engine (children & family) is in danger for a potential crash, (something to think about huh!!).


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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-17-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Sadly having to face it.

After all the years of my doing what I think to be my best with and being around others, I do and sadly accept the fact that there are many that has and will be lost to the consequences for their choice of life style, and those that for what ever reason who don't adhere to good and wise counsel has great potential for being collateral casualty and causing UN-warranty stress to those that love them. I can't and want say that even those that appear to be living a good and moral life don't and want be victim of evil happening, but what I can say; if it's what God allows He has his reason and what we may not like or understand want and could not ever change His purpose. I 've just in the past few years up until the current witness young people that has know clue nor desire to know what life is really about or it's worth and value, only to be caught up in the penalties of their doing at an appointed time and sadly to possibly end up in eternal damnation rather they believe it to be true or not, I will say this also; anyone who believe themselves to be able to go through this life with out God (through the acceptance of Jesus Christ) has been deceived into believing something that can never be possible, maybe believing themselves to be in knowledge that their way for life is correct and has known need for accepting any other guidance. I find myself even with my understanding of I can't and want change the mind-set or ways of many causes my feeling the hurt and sadness concerning the above mention, I do my best to pray for them and get out of God's way in what ever it is He has purpose for them rather it be in blessing or what ever.

Written by Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-16-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Feel as if in another world.

I can honestly say, that my being still alive in this today's time and witnessing the mind-set of  a great number of society's culture (young and old including member's in my families), If not for my belief and faith in God it would be almost impossible for me to believe there could in anyway be chance for most that are living and acting as they do today to be delivered or come out of these preferential (disrespectful verbally and attire) over principal life styles. I remember and now with out doubt know it to have been a blessing coming up as I did and under the guidance of those who knew the importance of rearing kids in the way that didn't allow them these freedoms as of today's rearing, which has resulted in most of this what we see today, for those of you who may for your what ever reason disagree; compare the people that came up in the 50's and earlier to those of today, even with all of the disadvantages and hardships back then, there was not this vast disrespect for themselves and or others. I find that even when some today know their way of thinking and living is out of order and causes themselves and those that love them great discomfort and miseries, they still for what ever reason choose to remain in this mind-set. Most adults like myself grieve because for what we know to be the consequential end for this way (choice) for living.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-10-2011. James Joseph. "All rights reserve."

Daughters/granddaughters and young ladies.

First of all I would like to say hello!,  those of you that are of the age and ability to understand knows that today's society allows you great freedom for decision making, It is my prayer that you open your mind's eye an accept what actually is before you make a decision on the things and people you pursue/desire, this will allow you to better see what's potentially awaiting on the back side of your choices, when a young lady allows herself to be caught  up in a mind-set which believes being a certain age or in a relationship automatically validates them for allowing or pursuit of sexual activity, and in some cases being as owned or control by another, young ladies when you allow yourselves to be put in this situation rather by choice or disdaining the advice of those who have the authority to instruct you in this area,  you then enter into this behavior pattern of knowing it all, overly exposing yourselves in dress attire and attaching yourselves to persons and conversation which bear no good or meaningful outcome, you open yourselves up to various sexual diseases, pregnancy and many others possible evils which target you for ruin and destruction. I  along with those who love you wish you great and productive lives, which could and can be attain by your being obedient to the instructions of those that are of the authority to pass to you their wisdom.

This blog is dedicated to my daughters, granddaughters and all other young ladies who deserve being properly guided.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-8-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Ears that are seal.

Those of you out there that's allowing yourselves to be treated in ways that are far from proper and respected, are setting yourselves up for miseries and hardship and if it's caused by your not giving ear to advice by those that love and care about you, you should reserve some time for being in an area or place where you can reflect back to those that are in your lives and how things concerning them and yourselves actually are, and if you see it to be not in proper order, you should find or accept the advice for the being able to eliminate this UN-necessary discomfort. The choices one makes in there lives usually paves the road for what way is to be traveled.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-7-2011 James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

If you knew the reason for a problem (would you fix it)?

From time to time I hear people saying this or that is being allowed because of someone not having the knowledge or ability to fix it, when there is someone that makes you aware that he/she has desire to become relationally involve with you, lets say you're in the process of getting yourself highly educated and or ready to travel different places or seeking any other goal and he/she has not one thing in common or understand or support your desire/desires, how is it and why should you maybe because of a momentary feeling of loneliness or God forbid (sexual urge) allow a beginning of what could never benefit you as for being successful and happy and especially with one that couldn't find his/her way around the block with a vocal compass. Now that you know  the reason for the problem (would you fix it)

"Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-7-2011  James Joseph. "All rights reserved."
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When exposed.

As sure as the sun sets in the sky there will be a moment in time when we all will have to come face to face with ourselves about that which we know to be truth, even with our unfairlly blaming others or covering up that which is, and for what ever reason,, believe me there is no place in existence where one can run to or hide from the truth indefinitely, and when we come to this realization it may have cost us some great losses, but even with that ; God does repair and replace the path that can prove to be good for not making those same mistakes or decisions, and guiding you toward His so many other Great Blessings.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-6-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved." exposed

It is in the up-bringing.(where path for life is paved).

I can say after going through and witnessing all that I have in my life's journey up into the current, there is a mind-set that  has been in this earth realm I guess since the beginning of time, I'm disturbed because of so many having fallen for this media mask of this evil happening all of a sudden and being caused and done by those people (black including poor Caucasians). What you are seeing and experiencing has an origin but it's not that of a people that for times passed couldn't even afford their own thoughts and that being by design, when there has been a penetration into a group, sector , family which for reason of dividing them for the destroying an order that holds it together, when there has been the re moving of that which identifies and gives substance for being, there is then the ground paved for deceiving, controlling, ruining and destroying. I having come up in a time where this evil was so easily identified and resisted even when it may cause one his/her life, There are many out there today who knows and realize the reason for the fall out of what is now being experience and it is my prayer and hope that they some how come together with those that has fallen for these so many deceptive  moves and well thought out plans for the total destruction of minds which holds the nectar for the combining and holding things and mannerism in the way it was purpose to be, that being loving, caring and the sustaining of life for all. There has to now be a returning to that which is the only way to combat against this rapidly moving evil for denying ,en-slaving, removal from any concrete ways for resisting this tide rather it be by family bond , political or clergy, no order is immune from being attack, your defense or repelling will not and can't come from those that perpetrated this evil mostly for lucrative gain, and what makes anyone think that those that cause the problems and evil will be the ones that fight against it, those that have the concerns for combating against this have to wage your war against  what's  being allowed into your homes and being seeded in yours and your kids mind, It is in the up-bringing (where path for life is paved).

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-5-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Allowing of potential destruction.

Maybe if those of us that seems to be blind to the craziness that's happening in our homes and communities, should stand about forty feet away from a huge oak tree and take a ruining start and hit it head on and maybe then we would knock some sense into ourselves to see that what's happen in today's society is not that by chance, we are for what ever reason allowing our children and on occasion ourselves to become commodity in this now culture of misery for exchange of money, how is it we can't see that this taking down of buildings and eliminating space for places of learning gives way to building facilities for incarcerating people and being privately owned, we can complain until the sky falls; it will not change the mind-set of those that acquire monetary gain by way of our ignorance concerning their moves, the only way to win a war is to know your strengths (education, willing to fight for what's right, voting polls) and the adversary's plan and strategy for battle. "By your not understanding the language doesn't mean nothing being said"

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-1-2011 James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

For being deserving of the blessing.

I honestly feel that when a man has come to maturity and place in life for desire of a good and morally minded wife, he should be equipped with knowledge and the mind-set of that which is the only way for the kind of union purpose by God, that being; able to afford her, able to please her, and most important; willing to always respect her as the gift she is and specifically grace to for such moment. A man having lots of money isn't cemented reality for that of being able to afford a women, what if she has as much or is of the ability to earn more than he does;  you afford her by doing the things a man can and should do; working being the primary, you please her by continuing to do that which she believe you to be able to do in the beginning, Respect: respecting her is the gesture that she deserves, needs and should always receive for evidence of your realizing and appreciating her position of statues, value and worth.

Writing inspired by and dedicated to my lovely Wife.

"Copyright 10-1-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."