Not padding the fall.

While taking their daily walk and passing this beautiful house with a front porch, swing and nicely fully green grass yard with two trees on the side of the house, one four feet high and the other thirty feet, this couple would notice this elderly man sitting in the swing and his three year old grand kid playing around the smaller tree, and there would be times when the little kid would be lying next to the tree crying and the elderly gentleman would still be sitting in the swing and not move an inch. One day while the kid was lying beside the tree crying the couple stopped and asked the elderly man why don't he assist the kid when he's lying there crying at times, he stopped the swing looked over at the kid and then at them saying; when my grand kid is out in this yard playing he's always instructed not to climb that tree, at his age his desire is strong and can only be broken through consequences for being disobedient which will one day teach him not to disobey nor entertain any momentary desire to climb the higher one.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.

"Copyright 6-29-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Fool proof.

The only way and with out doubt for fixing the Ill's of any Country, State, City or Community is to first truly identify that image in your mirror and then began the necessary adjusting on him/her.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.

"Copyright 6-28-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Traveling through the pains of life..

It is my belief that if one lives long enough he/she will come to understand that there are necessary pains that one will and has to go through when on the path that was destine them at conception. My life up until now I can say has journey me through racism in community and work place hard times, disappointments and so many heart broken movements which resulted in my some how missing the mark with some of those I've done my what I believe to be close to my very very best in guiding and or supporting them on the path toward their what I think to be purpose in life, with me even in being targeted as the villain at times by those that I've given years of commitment to both male and female, it does pain one's heart to know even thought there are those whom side with you in fairness and truth you hurt deep down in your heart because they now target the ones who's targeting you, withal it be by way of verbal or disassociation, and even with my understanding of some times this gesture needs be it doesn't eliminate the pain of witnessing that which now is,, was never what I wished it to be. (Traveling through the pains of life).

Written by: Coach James Joseph.

"Copyright 6-27-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

It can't always be hidden.

One nice beautiful summer day while sitting on a dock near this little man made pond this young lady was sitting next to her grandfather and asked, papa'; what is the reason for some people to say things about you that are not based in truth when it was they themselves which caused the separation of friendship, relationship and or companionship? Her grandfather responded, sweetheart; I can see what ever it is that caused you to ask this question has really caused you to be sad and some what looking at yourself for blame, there are times when we allow others in our lives who for what ever reason have passed issues in their lives that were never resolved and or with out the ability to, and in some cases refuse to correct, this can sometimes caused the inability to accept real love, care and concern and or identify with those who are not effected by this weakness, there will come a time when there is not and audience and or suppressive method available for the supporting of this so miserable encasement, which would at that moment in time cause them to face the truth of what actually is and causes one to see themselves as in a mirror which can cause pressure for resolving or hatred toward those whom they blame for bringing them to the realizing of what actually is,, because it can't always be hidden.



Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-26-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Blinding clouds.

When a young male/female has done what's required for that of getting the front end of a good solid education, withal it be high school or college and for what ever reason then enter into sudden relationship/companionship which at times interferes and or causes a slowing down or stoppage of a journey toward what was initially a targeted goal, at times proven ; this can because of desire and or momentary emotions blind one to the knowledge of that his/her life has much more to gain on the receiving end if he/she were to pursue the initial intended goals and or travels which can give birth to potential associations that may and could open up unlimited opportunities toward a predestine purpose.





Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-25-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Not bad as thought to be.

How many of us are allowing ourselves to grieve and or be in discomfort behind failed relationships and association which were never based in truth and or love initially. It is my belief that one's desire can get them caught up in momentary emotions with person's or thing,which in some cases doesn't allowed that what in times past has proven to be based in fact; the researching for character and or origin which holds the truth of what actually is rather it be person or thing. When one gets to a point in his/her life where there is no longer desire for accomplishing/arrival at what ever it is that they long for at what ever cost, it is at that moment; life becomes much easier to deal with and one can then patiently await or path themselves to what ever it is they desire or seek.


Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-21-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Deceptive terminology.

If the truth be told most of what has been accepted as being the truth has no factual base, for example: no pain no gain, how can anything or anybody that causes you the sensation of pain can in anyway be a gain to you, truth is that pain is and indicator of reaching a boundary point and as being associated with person, it allows you to see who they really are evidenced by the sensation brought on either by their association and or companionship.

Term: stick and stone may break my bones but talk don't bother me, how and what way could this saying be based in fact. Stick and stone only become of the possibility to break your bones when someone has talked to others to attack you with them (truth is; talk is what got you bother with broken bones!) lol!

Term: What I don't know can't hurt me, OK; try walking in the dark three feet forward when up on a mountain and the edge of a Cliff you can't see is two feet ahead.

Written by: Coach James Joseph
" Copyright 6-14-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Actualities of life.

A moment of negative action and or reaction stores up consequence that can last for months, years and some,, a life time.





Momentary emotions are not and can never be the basic actual means for identifying that of character or thing.





Written by: Coach James Joseph.


"Copyright 6-12-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

X-ray & MRI of life.

There has been and will continue to be suffering and ruin by reason of momentary emotions and UN-founded expectation being the basis for acceptance. Those who are with out the tools for knowledge to see beyond the emotional gesture are subject to hidden dangers. An X-ray and or MRI machine sees beyond the surface which exposes what's covered, so can obedience to knowledge concerning certain decisions to be made in life.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-11-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Willingly accept the fall-out for purpose.

Those of us that for what ever reason whom involve ourselves in the life's of others for the purpose of enhancing or paving the path toward what we may believe to be good and productive living. We must willing accept the possibilities for heart felt pain by reason of some at an appointed time deviating and or accusing us of things that we couldn't or wouldn't allow to seed in our thoughts, I have, and over the years because of going through so many different outcomes resulting from this avenue in life what I think to be my current time for purpose. There comes a time when one must and I guess for survival in sustaining in place believed to be purpose, use the holes which are caused from back stabbing an all other ways of negative feedback to be a means of air conditioning for the heart lol!!. willingly accept the fall-out.





Written by: Coach James Joseph.


"Copyright 6-10-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Domain of desire (will it cause the loosing of your grip).

There were these two ( Male/female) who lived in this jungle, and as they were growing up they were instructed by this great hunter and guide for knowing the ways of all the animals and paths for travel and non travel. One evening while waking with him down a path along side of a quick sand pit one notice this tree with a small thin cord hanging just out of arms reach from the pit, and also notice so many different animals and other's resembling themselves and some who had great physical structure who were reaching up for the cord but the weight and dampness of the mud in the pit prevented them from grasping it, and one of them asked the guide what was the meaning of the tree and short thin cord and why were so many people in the quick sand pit struggling along side all of those animals both good and bad? He responded; the tree as you can see is rooted on solid ground and it's strong branches extends both east and west, and the thin cord was put there by themselves on something already strong enough to sustain any weight and shade (just below and on solid ground) desire, and the people you saw in the pit were holding on to the weak cord for reaching but fell into the domain of their desires.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.

"Copyright 6-5-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

You know who you are!

This is specifically written to those of you who for what ever reason now find yourselves angry and are currently hateful of me, what ever the reason for your feeling my notes and blogs are in some way specifically targeting you, as I've said before; my writing are that of my life's experiences and or convictions, and in no way a means for disrespecting or any other negative gesture toward anyone in particular. I willingly open myself up as for being a target for your electronic sarcasm and mental anger until there has been for you sufficient venting of your feeling for the need for targeting me with your attacks for what ever reason. God! Bless!!

Not even hafe the distance.

Good parent/parents and mentor can see what it is that one can be if stayed on the path for life's travel, but there are some who detour at the point of a quarter of a mile traveled.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-5-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Which way is it tilting?

A certain young man whom after every summer break while he was attending college would go to his grandfather's place in the country. Doing his senior year one of his friends asked could he come along so he could also speak with his grandfather about the ways of life. Upon their arrival the grandfather greeted the both and said which way is it tilting, the other young man puzzled by this saying asked the grandfather to explain, he chuckle,, and then asked the young man to sit in front of this great big old round mirror. He asked the young man to picture in his mind while looking in the mirror the good and the bad done to himself by others he trusted and are associated with, he then said to him picture this balancing scale one being your choices one being persons who love you and exhibited it by morally disciplining and supporting you in what ever way, if you were to honestly rewind your mind back three to five years to the day who would prove to be the one averaging the most favorable doing of what to be loving and good in your life, which way is it tilting?

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-4-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Pool of many colors.

This elementary school class out of a little country town was on this field trip where they visited this home in the city that had this big swimming pool and the waters were of many colors, the owner of the home seeing the puzzled look on the teacher and students faces asked,, is there a problem, the teacher responded; how is it that this pool has so many different colors? the owner responded; Many out there in society male/female have caused themselves a lot of hardship and or miseries by reason of their decision making and or associations for what ever reason, and now are seeking a place to cry, so every other day a bus load comes over and they are allowed to do so in that pool.

Written by: James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-1-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Something to think about huh!

When being young an of the ability to have dreams , desires, goals and all that is only possible when one has life, lets not forget someone gave you that life (something to think about huh!). Goals, desire and dreams are only attainable when there is someone who willingly sacrifices his/her immediate cares and concerns for the attaining of yours (something to think about huh!). when on the path of journey toward your dream, desire, goal some one had to labor and pay for the existence of the material you're traveling on (something to think about huh!). while in your hot pursue of those things wanted most someone has to be there for guidance and support (something to think about huh!). If that same parent/guardian who nursed, loved and care for you was of the ability to do so through out the rough times and at this what you might say place of instance attainment for wisdom where you're now smarter then them (something to think about huh!). New friends and associates now in your life and only by reason of way guided by the one you now disrespect, dislike and blame for what ever and siding against them (something to think about huh!). Now that you have come to the end of their so call knowledge for guiding or instructing you, and they even with the love that's encased in their hearts now allows you to travel on into your newly crowd of yes men/women advisers, by the way who aren't in the same city, state or place you are (something to think about huh!).



Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 6-1-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."