Are you sure of your choice.

There shall come a day when all of us are going to answer for our living and in no way either of us will be able to escape the fruits of our doing. Those of us who are now on our chosen path for life has the power of choice to make what ever necessary changes while there is still life in our being for getting on the path that was predestine for our purpose at moment of breathing. At the moment of death or Christ breaking through the clouds it will be then when those of us for what ever reason who chose our method/methods for belief's and conviction will come into the true factual evidence of what really is, wither we think it to be a true and loving God are what ever else it was that we choose. The thing about this life and the God I know and believe to be the one and only true God Himself states; If He's not who He says He is what is it for you to fear at that time of accountability, and if He is then begins your wages of payment for a life which was lived, Now again; are you sure of your choice.



Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 2/28/2011. James Joseph."All rights reserved."

Destine to crash.

There was this wise man who had be-Friend this kid by-way of this kid walking up to him one day and saying Sir; every since I was little I wanted to be an astronaut, he responded; well why don't you, and the kid held his/her head down and softly said; every one says it can never be. The wise man started training the kid in the areas of mental and physical necessities of aviation awareness, for years he train and tested him/her in what he had taught. The wise man had grown to love him/her as if it was his own kid and taught him/her a great deal about what was needed for the acquiring and arriving at his/her dream/goal, he said there are !!warning!! signs that you MUST always obey, you should never for what ever reason forget those who have gotten you to your point of attainment, reason being; there are those who don't want to see you fly, and there or those that will deceive you for reason of a free ride and the extra weight will cause you to crash. After years had passed the kid day for entering in the ship for a flying solo had come and he/she did very well. Now this kid had learn well from the wise man teaching and others noticed and started hanging around the run-way. The kid now began to miss flying lessons with the wise man, and would sometimes hang around and fly along his/her new friends, the wise man one day went to the bank to get out the saving he had reserved for the kid, the bank teller asked, sir; didn't you tell me you would only take out this saving to buy your kid a space shuttle, he held his head down and softly said ,yes; that was my intention, but now I need the funds to repair the run-way after a major crash.


Story Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 2/27/2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Blame my parents!

I was taught at a early age how to behave when under pressure from being attacked by way of character assassination and any other possible way for such purpose. I was brought up by two very loving and wise parents which instructed me in the ways of life's does and don't and I believe myself to be well reared and one who's teaching and values allows and causes me to deal with what ever attacks that or manifested for my demise wither it be in character or physical. My way of life has, and still have me on paths of doing what I think to be best in helping others to realize some of the joys I received as being happy and able to enjoy the time of life given us by God, with out the UN-needed stresses or down falls which are consequences of ignorance and not being instructed in love ,care and concern. I have been raised to no that I myself,, and as long as I hold on to my belief's and convictions taught me at an earlier time; I'm able to survive the attacks leveled against me, most unfortunately; mainly coming from those that I love and done what I think to be righteous by. I can say; as I live and breath I haven't and never will as long as I'm in my right mind purposely or willingly contemplate or knowingly partner with anyone in causing any sort of hardship, or destroying of character and or physical harm to anyone. I hope that those of you that have question concerning who I really am,, the reading of this blog helps you to know and understand I just may not be the person or monster others have projected me to be.



Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 2/27/11 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Symptoms of the big head.

Why would you change toward the one that give you their time and support for your being at your appointed goal.

And how could the time, places and experiences shared together be as if they've never happen.

How is it that those that come on the scene for just a little while are treated as royalty and the one who's always been there as trash.

Why am I now so easily discarded as being as non-important and not knowing or understanding who you are.

How is it that you can so easily lie to or just care less concerning/toward the one who has always been there for you.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 2/26/2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

From grace to space.

If it was some way possible to get today's society to reflect back on some of the history that was journeyed by most of those who gave their lives and some of us who are still here and survived those horrors which had to be over com ed by a mind set of, I would rather give my life then to be or make any other human being a slave. I lived the fifties and I remember my father who is now deceased only had a third grade education and my mom who is still here today, they operated as a unit in rearing and instructing us in how and why things was as they were in those times, letting us no even though it's a journey now being travel we can change these things for the future for ourselves family and others by getting the best education possible and to never allow yourself to become what you hate, that being; a racist and some one that willfully causes the misery, demise of family member, friend or others for personal gain or so call statue. I as a boy couldn't go on Canal st. unless you were accompanied by an adult, if they were black they had to have a good reason for being there themselves, the word nigger was constantly use as describing blacks in those days which caused me sensation of discomfort as it still does today; when my mom would enter the front of the bus to pay the fare I can still hear this Caucasian man telling her to get back out and enter the side door and sit in the back with that nigger. Now in today's time I find myself very much disturb and even boarder on the point of anger when I see how far blacks has fallen from their should be moral standard of thinking/living. Any man or woman that has not the wisdom/understanding to stand in his/her place as a parent should not be commission with these positions with out getting the necessary teaching that make it possible to represent such a God given and highly responsible post. There is so much history that's living among us and is at finger tip distance for the acquiring of the knowledge to turn this mad way of today's living around. (you have not because you ask not)!

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 2/22/2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Steps that causes to sometimes be steped on.

When you out of genuine love, care and concern do what you think to be your best at trying to guide and support those you love wither they be family or friend, and it for what ever reason instead of you being appreciated as for trying to enhance their dream, you are look at as causing their nightmare; the heart felt pain can be as nothing you've ever experienced, but the love you have for them allows you to journey in that moment and hope that some how and some day they will come to realize; that you only wanted to protect them from what it cost you.


Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 2/21/2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Appointed time

When a man stays on his path of life regardless of the down falls that's experienced in his journey toward a predestine future which was established by God, that man; will stand in his appointed time as a champion.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.

"Copyright 2/21/2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Brought on by choice.

How many of us can say we are without at lease five people in our lives in which we know for certain means us no good, and yet we still for some strange reason allow them place. There will always be the baring of unnecessary misery and hardship cause by our decision made in choices concerning association/relationship, until there is an adhering to wisdom gotten through obedience or trial.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 2/19/2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

!!Warning!! Don't take me for granted.

It amazes me how this younger generation feel as if you have to cater to their every move and or thoughts. I come from a time in which one would appreciate and or understand the importance of being care for and guided away from certain misery and or destructive path. In all of my time working past years with kids and young adults, I have never ever witness the behavior and disrespect some of them have concerning themselves and others as I do today, honestly; if it was not for the commitment God has commissioned me with concerning this work, I would have no problem moving on into finding something else that would appreciate my efforts and commitment toward what ever task. I can say this; if I see that you are taking me for granted ,, you will be at the end of my journey with you irregardless how much I love and or care for you; there is no way anyone can help those who for what ever reason isn't willing to do what's necessary for the accomplishing of a set goal.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 2/14/2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

You're eighter hot or cold.

Those of us who are supposedly the Stuarts and reflections of God's ways seem to be weaker then and lacking in understanding as those we are and should be commission to bring into the true light, reason being, why is it that we give in to this so call accepting and seeking the hope in cures being found for things that are really punishment and not unfortunate circumstances, if one is to believe God's warning for punishment resulting from disobedience to His word why and how come those of us who suppose to be rooted in truth are so easily swayed into siding in whats is not based in wisdom, and sides with ignorance in things that can never be alter or diminished in effect for purpose of holding one accountable for his/her ways and or choosing.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 1/5/2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Given in to hoplessness

I can't say or write this with any more conviction then as; Why and what is it that allows anyone to passively sit around and or just complain about the way society has slipped away from being responsible when it comes to raising children, respecting others and ourselves, the truth is; some of us are the main corporate which gave birth and or supporting of the continuance of this madness. All that is needed; is for each and every one of us is to measure our life's doe's and don't when it comes to whats is now occurring in today's time, and to make the necessary changes and or adjustments needed concerning ourselves.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 2/3/2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."