Welcome to join in this prayer.

Thanking God for all of those that He allowed in my life and including those that have gone on to glory, I sincerely pray for and give thanks on behalf of those that may not yet realize who God actually is and His love and patience still being handed out to them and myself also. My being blessed to still be here (on earth) at the age of sixty and in my right mind (not all will agreed to that lol!) is reason enough for thinking Him, when I see how so many are going through mental and physical problems for what ever reason it will be boarded on insanity not to, I pray that all will one day come into the so needed awareness of God being the only source needed instead of the so many people and things they seek for acceptance and or validation. Again as I always state; my belief's and conviction's are in no way a means for condemning or maneuvering anyone over to the way I feel, those of you who worship the True God I serve I stand in agreement with you in your prayer for his answering according to His WILL. Happy New Year!!!!  Love! God Bless!!

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-31-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Request through prayer.

Being in the mind-set of where I find myself today and at the age of sixty, my request in prayer to God is that He continue working with and on me in what ever area He deems necessary, and if by discipline or punishment He allow me to maintain the wisdom and understanding to endure the trial. I also request through prayer that all those that I have in someway been apart of lives, and have in anyway caused them any discomfort or hardship wither it been through my being ignorant of the fact or what ever momentary state of not being able to realize it; that they accept my apology for such gesture, those that unfairly hold things against me that I am not at fault be given the ability and courage to face and accept the actual reason for that they unjustly hold myself and others as blame. I think God for gifting me with the wisdom for seeing things as they are, and the understanding for potential causes/consequences that can result from one being ignorant of, or for what ever reason not accepting what is truth, as in a time before; many were having what they believed to be big fun and partying when another was being instructed to build a boat; the flood waters or now at the door again!

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

cause of own pains.

While in a doctor's office with his eighty seven year old mother, this man was telling her about the response he receives from younger folks (some old) when trying to make them aware of the potential out come for disrespectful attitude's and decisions made, only to be met with most of them stating they're already old enough to know are understand the matter being discussed, his mother after sipping on some coffee reply; son, in this day's culture most young people base avenue for knowledge to be their mind -set for being opinionated (with out being researched in fact), and just then a young girl walked into the office with two young children and pregnant.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-26-2011. James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Smiling snakes.

I wonder! if when Eve was in that garden did that snake (Satin) have a smile on his face as a deceptive cover while he was speaking to her, reason for my being curious; his offspring (coaches/instructors) that are in the boxing gym among us has/duplicate his same character trait.

True to the fact!

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-21-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Not in this house.

While sitting around the family dinner table in this small country town, at the front end sat the elderly grand parents, a certain fourteen year old kid visiting from the big city with his mother notice a closet door which on the front read war chest, and he/she asked a twenty year old cousin what was the meaning of that, as he was beginning to explain it's meaning the kid threw a piece of bread over the table at his mother, the elderly grandparent suddenly got up and every one else at the table broke out running.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-18-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

What should al-ways be shown.

I can remember a time when those things that were significant took preference over all other's, for example, a kid receiving a hug and or praise of appreciation from his parents, a mother or father doing or saying something of appreciation to their parents for their up bringing, married couples noticing and attending to the need for special time (verbal & romantic) with the other regardless of what ever disagreement between them, friend letting you know how he/she feels about you even when ways were parted for what ever reason, I guess we have fallen so for from what is to be of the most importance, oops! excuse me for a moment,,, sorry about that interruption, had to go in front of the mirror and let that image know how much I appreciate him.


Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-18-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved." always

Miss my story.

This eighty nine years old lady while visiting her great granddaughter in this big city was ask to attend an early morning week day church service, after the services they stopped by a small coffee shop, the grand mother reach in her bag for a peppermint candy while staring at her granddaughter, she responded, grandma' what's wrong, she replied; it's enough my feet are hurting from waiting on all of those automobiles to be park by those three people before we could pass to go inside that big building, but the thing that has me mad, she reaching in her bag getting her coin purse to tip the waitress, she said; that young fool talked for an hour and a half about how nice, pretty and great his new building is, her granddaughter saying; grandma' what's wrong with that, she then look her granddaughter in the eye while reaching in her bag pulling out a small Bible and said; baby!; this is what God's greatness is,, fool made me miss my story.

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Written by Coach James Joseph'
"Copyright 12-17-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Lead by prey.

Two elderly gentlemen while playing the game of chess in a community center notice two young people walking by, the young girl neatly/properly dress well manner spoke to them both, the young man pass by with his pants hanging low enough for his pockets to be worn as socks and his lips shaped like that of a horse shoe said nothing, one of the gentlemen told the other; I hope she's not his girl friend, the other smiling asked why?, he responded; that would be as a Shepard switching place with the sheep.

Written by: Coach James Joseph'
"Copyright 12-16-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Shouldn't be allowed.

While shopping at this mall with her mother this young parent decided to stop at an area in the complex to get some orange juice, the young lady began to discuss the problems she was having in her home with her teenage daughter concerning being disrespectful and disobedient, her mom looking her in the eye responded; that juice you're drinking, do you think the owner of that stand would allow you to cross the counter and get it yourself."

"the owner of the home is the one with the authority to call the shots"

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-16-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Mrs Start.

A very successful young female doctor after a very busy work week would always find time to go and talk to homeless females on her days off, she was approach by an award winning righter and he requested her to allow him to do a story about what she was doing and why, She agreed and said; "it's all because of Mrs Start!, my mother had me at a very young age and had to leave me with my grandmother to be raised," he asked her why; she replied; "when my mother was young she was of the mind-set when she reached sixteen she was grown enough to put her hand up in those with authority face when they would try and talk to her and she tell them to stop," He then ask; what has this to do with this lady name Mrs. Start, she smiling replied; "one day my mom while still living with my grandmother did this when she was disciplining her, she suddenly went to my mom's room and later return with a suit case and a sign reading start as she pointed to the door."

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-16-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved'"

Dam it! it's time for this to stop.

We MUST!, get ourselves in an order which allows us to see and understand a great deal of today's happenings when it comes to our kids/youth don't have to be, we have better start putting our foot down, and I don't mean on the carpet, why are we who call ourselves adults, leader, parent, friend and preacher not doing the things that need be for the curvature of what's now happening, dam it! it's time for this to stop, how is it we're allowing our daughters/granddaughters free run in dress attire which resembles that of what is commonly known as working girl attire, and willing accepting their sexual activity and ungodly hours for social gathering while still living under our roof, we really should be alarmed for what has and can cost us the lost of our kids to some crave menace desire because of our allowing certain things, we have to get away from this accepting what's being pushed on those of us that should know the importance and effectual worth of parental authority  dam it! it's time for this to stop, we have better go back to a place in time where we may have not had the money, material, fancy car and wide screen TVs but we had sense!, we've got to stop waiting on some hero (system) to show up on a horse and save us and our kids, when the truth is; that so call hero is the one with his foot on our necks, we have better either get it together or continue the risk of loosing our kids/youth.

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"Don't mean to offend anyone (family included) just keeping it real!"

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-16-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Your work is not in vain.

Specifically speaking to those of you out there that are helping others, and your reason are proven to be that of genuine love, care, concern, you may or may not receive public recognition for what you've done and are doing, believe me; those that you've helped and are helping if not now one day will realize and think you greatly, I've been blessed to see some of those that's come through  my and coach Dawson's Barze (now decease) program as kids and young adults, now doing for others and their own kids as was done for them, some of these kids were caught up in the streets, mind-set that blinds one to his/her worth and potential, former drug user/dealers, school drop out, disrespectful and now professional and productive human beings. Again!; please continue your commitment and hard work through which God grants you honour and He receives the glory!.

"Stay your course, you are definitely needed"

Writing dedicated to the memory of my good friend: Coach Dawson (Legion) Barze.
Written by: Coach James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Time of sorrows.

Those of us that are not sadden and alarmed by where we are today should be, reason being; we seem to be living in a time where young people hate themselves and others, resulting in senseless killing and all sort of sexual activity which has an attachment for deteriorating health and causing death, many of our young people living in a hopeless state, those that should be as a mirror reflecting to them what should be have fail them miserably, judges, police officers, politician and clergy (so called spiritual leaders) being exposed for been opposite of what's to be their intended statues and purpose, just think;, what kind of pressure it must be; being required to be and act a certain way when there's no model or base for duplicating, I truly believe we have enter into that predicted occurring; Time of sorrows.

Written by: Coach James Joseph'
"Copyright 12-15-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Watching our world being torn in pieces.

Seriously!, anyone having two an a half seconds of sense can see the deterioration of this world/society, all of us could be in some way contributors; wither it be through apathy and or us being with out the ability or courage to step in where need be, and us not supporting those who have proven themselves effective in combating against this craziness, none of us are immune from the possibility for being in someway effected by today's rapid falling away from what's right and good, I believe the time has long come for us all to in some way bring about a way or join forces with those who are effectively combating against this madness.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-14-2011 James Joseph.All rights reserved."

Give it some thought

How is it you can give him/her so much of your trust, valuable time and worth when he/she has proven with out doubt that your momentary sensation for joy or discomfort is sustained or diminished by him/her at what ever time he/she determine for your enduring either?

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
 "Copyright 12-14-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Locking up fall out.

Had not the bomb been drop there wouldn't be any fall out. Those of us who perceive ourselves to be wise and with the understanding for knowing the cause of society's downward spiral, are we with out doubt of what we believe to be accurate, reason stated; seeing the jail time being given to those that are caught committing and or being accuse of committing crime, mainly young black males, and the cry for getting this wave under control is great, and should be!, but; why isn't that same cry targeted at huge record corporation persons that produce, request and support the manifestation of this music lyrics culture, why isn't that cry targeted at those that tear down schools and replace them with structures for incarceration purpose (the new stock market), where are the arrest warrants for those big organizations/companies that bring there weapons in our communities in the name of gun shows, there may be those that don't agree with me, but; I believe we have fallen short for being of the ability to discern hidden criminal entities from that of fall out or maybe we've become to gutless to face the truth and attempt method for ending this madness. " Bottom line!The truth is; we're failing as leaders, in family structuring and supporter of what's right."

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-11-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

The message is not the delivery person.

While sitting in church service along side his grandmother this teenage boy whisper to her, that he knows the man/women who was up there preaching from the streets, and he/she was doing more wrong things then he was, She lean over and whisper back in his ears; baby; "God speaks even when it appears a  jackass lips are moving."


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Written by Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-11-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Summit concerning Society & wisdom.

There was written in agreement a summit for dialogue between society and wisdom, the rules to apply were each to present their views and convictions with out interruption from the other, the scoring was to be kept by way of consequences, society speaking first; "I believe that I should always be free to wear what ever attire I choose, and say what I think at any moment or place I choose, my associations shouldn't be subject to anyone Else's opinion,, wisdom now taking the floor saying; " when one's mind-set is to be free to do, say, dress in any attire of their choosing with choice for associations also, and they are with out the ability for weighing the potential for consequences because of their not having boundary, knowledge for discernment and observation through research; there is then this door open for entrance into being deceived onto a path for miseries, physical harm to oneself and others around them, ruin, heart ache and possibly their demise, now that each has presented their views and convictions, the scores will be mailed to each by way of consequences.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-4-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Knowing who you actually are.

Hi there young lady! I'm only requesting a minute of your time and all I would like to do, that's if you have the patience and is willing to hopefully attain some knowledge concerning things that may prove to be for your best interest, first; "you should known the importance of your being", and if not do you think it to be important enough for you to discover what that is to be, let me try and explain it to you this way; "your reason for placement on this planet was to exhibit one of God's greatest gifts to man and causing a smile to be on His face for  Him looking down upon His magnificent creation and contribution to a planet that could not with out you put in place the bodies and minds for it's continual existence", are you still there, your value and worth is match by none or anything besides you, you will find yourself to be out or place when standing in any other spot then what was your initial purpose, you should not allow anyone or anything to cause yourself to be remove from such a great an honorable position of statues under any circumstance, if for any reason you were not aware of who you are and your value and worth, you now have no excuse for being are remain in a place or position which with out doubt is a down grade from your greatness, It is my prayer and I'm sure many others that you do what ever there be that's necessary  if need be to free yourself from this mind-set that you have to wear attire and are accept disrespectful treatment form anyone to be validated as being what a fool could never understand you to be. Sorry for taking more then that minute I first requested, I would also like to apologize to you for those (adults, clergy, leaders) that should have been in their places of authority for instructing you concerning these matters and for what ever reason wasn't, Young lady give it your best to go and get whats rightfully yours. Love! God Bless!

Written by: Coach James Joseph
. "Copyright 12-1-2011 James Joseph."All rights reserved."

Not worth a $dollar.

One Sunday/Saturday evening while seated around the dinner table after this close family had return home from church, there was a discussion concerning what the younger members of the family would become by reason of their education, the teenage girl saying; "I would like to become an actress and perform in live plays", both grandparent and parents smiling, the teenage boy said; "I want to become one who clones celebrities and famous people and make lots of money" his grandmother looking at him with this glorious smile and said; "are you sure!, where there is an abundance of ignorance it's not worth a dollar."

Story written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-1-2011. James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Life has it's rainbow.

How is it that countless amount of lives, friendship, marriages, and families are being ruin and or destroyed?, I'll try and explain it to you this way, you may want to sit down, it's OK with me if you choose to remain standing, lol!!, lets use the story of the leprechaun and the hidden pot of gold; there at times of a storm or bad weather,, appears an rainbow that starts at a point one can see, and leads to a pot of gold which is guarded by a leprechaun who refuses to allow anyone to attain it's riches, OK! are you still with me (chuckling!!)? good!, your lives are as that of this rainbow beginning of a path which leads to things and people of knowledge that's necessary for the sustaining of yourself and family, if one is able to overcome the obstacles that's along the path of the rainbow till reaching it's end, there is also the leprechaun (adversary) standing in front to blind you with deceptiveness for not letting you locate the pot of gold (wisdom), that deception being; selfishness, disobedience, greed , sexual, etc..., reason for not allowing you attain the wealth (knowledge) that could allow you not to be in the predicament you're now in which has been put in place by your adversary (Satin) for your demise.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-1-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Time is fast running out.

We can for what ever reason choose to ignore the signs of warnings concerning the coming of this world's end, but I can say to you with out reservation, "that reality is at  the door, even a bird has enough sense to fly a way from an on coming storm when there's a shifting in the wind", all one has to do is pay attention to the way nature is changing it's norm and society on a hold has become any and every thing but what it was purpose to be. When you have come to the point where backwards is accepted as being forward and hatred and willful evil doing is placed ahead of love, care and concern, you are then at the door for total destruction, again; regardless of your for what ever reason for not accepting this warning, again; time is fast running out. 

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.

"Copyright 11-30-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

"There's always an escape route through prayer!". Love ! God Bless!!

Heavey experience.

As sure as the moon sit between the heavens, there will for some and maybe for others come a time when he/she will be disrespected, lied on, betrayed and UN-appreciated by him/her whom you have

done what proved to be good honest, fair and needed for what ever period an time you put in and sacrifices made concerning self and family, If you truly love the one whose going to visit this evil on you, I suggest you use whats left of the love you may still have, and pray for their release from this self destructive state.

Writing inspired by past and current experience.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-30-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

How are we to know?

While visiting a small city community zoo and carrying their pet penguin name Charlie, this elderly couple was standing along side this young couple who were feeding the penguins that were kept there, after awhile they were in conversation concerning today's culture differences and theirs, the young man saying to the elderly gentlemen "we are living in a different time and your way has become antiquated, our culture follows dress attire that's in style and we're free to make our own decision for association and choices" the elderly couple looking at one another chuckling, the gentlemen said; "son; when one has chosen to follow the crowd in dress attire and in thinking he/she exercise their power for choice, but you can never have power for choice concerning the consequences resulting from your decisions made" the young lady then said; "even though we adhere to today's dress attire that doesn't say we're as others" the elderly lady said; "sweetheart come over here, and she set her pet penguin inside along with the others and looked straight in the young lady's eye and said; which one is Charlie."

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-29-2011. James Joseph. "All right reserved."

There's a reason for today's fix.

Two grandparent while talking with their grand kids a boy and girl, instructing them about the ways of some they may come in contact with through out their journey in life, the gentlemen said; "when you do your best to do whats good and moral there will be traps for your ruin and or demise, and your main accusers will be those you've in someway helped", after he finished speaking the grandmother looking at her granddaughter with a gentle smile saying; "sweetheart you are the most targeted because of your value and worth" the young lady asking why?, her grandmother responded; "it is through the female where life is enter into this earth, if one can cause you to not be of the knowledge or ability to know this significance  it causes a downward  domino effect as of which you see in this today's cultural where all tangibleness are out of order."

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-28-2011 James Joseph. "ALL rights reserved."

Planet within a planet.

One nice cool evening while sitting and playing checkers in a community park, two elderly gentlemen notice young girls (also some up in age) walking by with the attire of being able to use the restroom with out removal of material, and also young men (some up in age also) wearing attire so low they could also do the same if there was need to, One gentlemen told the other; "I remember when I would watch movies like star trek where the crew would have to beam down onto other planets to see things that prove to be backwards or just puzzling to those which came from another place in the atmosphere", the other chuckle and responded; "I guess those planets got tired of all the outside visitors and their interference and has now beam down their cultural's ways to this planet.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyrights 11-28-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Being lost dosn't diminish it's value.

One day while speaking with his grandfather this young man asked him, "pa-pa' how is it that while in your golden age you still look so young" the grandparent chuckled!, and replied; son, "when I was coming up people was raising there kids stress free and there weren't many reasons to frown" the kid saying huh!, his grandparent responded; " back then a parent knew the importance of rearing with authority which comprised of their loving, caring, supporting and discipline, and most kids were taught to be obedient through discipline that seeded deep down in their soul", the young man being a little puzzled, the grandfather further explained; "parent, clergy, honest leaders instructed in ways that placed boundaries  deep down into our thoughts, when anything contrary to one's teaching would try an arise it was repelled by that discipline and not allowed to seed for manifestation, today's society seem to have lost that way, The young man said, "I guess the reason for this anger, disfigurement on most of my generation faces is because of the lost of this so great and valuable treasure", the grandparent replied; "son, when something valuable is lost for what ever reason it doesn't diminish it's value or worth and if you truly desire to attain that what was lost, prayer offered by yourself and others is the key for attainment".

Story based on actual conversation in some parts.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-26-2011 James Joseph. "All right reserved."

Done in by acceptance

When one strive for what ever reason to make everyone they come in contact with their friend/associate, he/she seem to be with out the knowledge for this becoming a pit for misery, ruin or personal destruction, reason being; "if one was to go into the woods to hunt for food and he/she brings back out all they've come across, is it possible they themselves could be eaten by one of their gathering".

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-19-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Just think had you?

Ever thought about if you hadn't done the things you did or associated with others you didn't, is it possible your life and those around you would have been privileged to good, great and having more meaning, look at it from this angle; "lets say if most people today that have generated their wealth, fame and what ever success by means of degrading others in their lyrics or physical doing, if these people would re-direct their talent into doing what is good (moral) and beneficial to those they speak concerning and are their follows", there would be an audience which could greatly benefit from those they are captivated by for what ever reason and they themselves (audience/follows) would pass on that goodness in speech or physical gesture, which will intern generate extension in life and it's glories and not death or ruin, regardless of what side of the fence you stand; "if you can't see or feel the fall out of what's happening in today's society you have to be bordered on being insane (my opinion)." It is my belief; that if all of us would use the talent and special gift God  in-trust (blessed) us with, "there would not be as many suffering miseries, mential discomfort, ruin and following this mind-set for these evil paths.

Writtten by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-19-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved.'"

Final battle.

A group of young men that usually come to gether on Saturdays to play basket ball would always pass in front of a certain house, they began to notice this elderly man sitting in his pouch swing dress in army fatigue and with Bible in hand sometimes staring up into the sky, one day one of the young men stop and asked the elderly gentlemen "what was the reason for his dress attire and staring gesture", the elderly man responded; "son there is coming the final battle and the enemy has line up his forces," the young man now having a puzzle look on his face, the elderly man said to him; "son sit down and let me make you aware of what's already happen", then he began to explain; "The enemy has infiltrated those he wish to destroy by deceiving their strong through what they believe to be their strength" now the young man cemented in attention and also nervous, the elderly man continue, "their education, monetary and material statues has caused them to abandon what was their only means of defence (moral attachment)," this infiltration has deceived them with the mind-set of allowing their young to determine their on dress attire and what they believe to be wisdom in picking friend/associate, their (adults) exchanging rule for authority in the home for being their kids friend",, "there is only one reason that a wolf would play with a sheep and that is to make sure he can get close enough to lock him in his jaws" now the kid is really attentive, the elderly man said; "those of us that are aware of this are waiting to be called up to join our general in the final battle".

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-19-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Test.

A.) Am I an honest person when it comes to dealing with others?

B.) Am I someone that I known with out doubt would never intentionally deceive or lie on others?

C.) Am I worthy of receiving that which I desire from others?

D.) Am I the cause/reason for my being in my current state?

E.) Have I been totally fair and honest in holding others as blame for my short falls?

F.) have I ever or am I now believing myself to be the only reason/source for my successes?

G.) If I find myself to be at all bitter and now target another for my being in this state, could I honestly look at myself in the mirror and not be guilty for not being totally honest?

H.) If I was someone who wish to be in an association/relationship with one that's respectful, honest, loyal, morally intact, would I choose me?

I.) Am I one that carries myself in a good and respectful way and display character in which causes others to enjoy my presence?

J.) Could I be truful to myself even at the cost of my being ashamed or exposed  because of my taking this test and after  have the courage to make what ever necessary adjustments for correcting what needs be in My life?

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-18-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Boundless culture.

I am sure after reading this blog there will be those that side's with choice, and that I realize and accept; but, it to me does not eliminate what I think to be a falling away from self respect and good moral way for living (my opinion!), today's time (culture) has as a show case for exhibiting that which is in or should be desire, and that to me has need of boundaries. When I see girls and young ladies dress in attire that would force Victoria attire to become secret and even in temperature that would cause an ice cube to wear a overcoat, it really makes me wonder how far have we fallen, that being; those of us who are heads in our homes and supposedly with the authority for rearing our kids in manner and dress attire.
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"When one (adults included) has for what ever reason fallen all the way to the bottom, he/she has either to get up or accept the role of a floor math."

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-18-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

He/she that fest with you.

One cool summer day while visiting her grandparent, this your girl along with her friend from school was seated at the dinner table, "she asked her grandparent how is it that people for no reason become your enemy", her grandparent seated as in an royal posture and smiling responded, "sweetheart; you can only have actual knowledge concerning anyone by what they've said or done already" , they both listening while reaching for a piece of bread at the same time, her grandparent while looking at her friend said, "you can never know what someone will do or not do, your enemies sometimes choose you".
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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-17-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Purpose for restoring and joining together

Hi to those of you out there that are among the doers and family structuring mind-set, there probably has and if not will come a time of you being disturb/upset by those who benefit in some way from your efforts by their showing little sign of appreciation (family included), let me help you to understand and known certain things happen as do this for what ever reason, that's not to say it diminishes who you are and your worth; If you were to go in most closets you will find tubes of glue stored away that's been used at some time for purpose of causing things to join together, stay with me here!, reason being; by that glue tube being hid away in that closet does not eliminate it's strength or purpose for binding things together, those that as this used tube of glue contain within them the means for causing the comings together or fixing of what was separated, your container itself (body/image) suffer in appearance by reason of you allowing so much to be release for what ever necessary moments of bonding, and as that tube of glue you may be fixing those that can't understand your reason for being or your worth.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph. joining
"Copyright 11-16-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Blessing or burden?

When I hear reason some give for their allowing or staying in relationships/association and or friendship circles which has caused them constant discomfort, harm, misery and other evils,, reason given; "they believe themselves to be recipient of a blessing (gift) from these associations", if that's not far from truth and close to insanity!, reason being; "how could it be a gift when they themselves seek-ed it out, and blessing from above (God) result's in joy and not burden".

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
 "Copyright 11-14-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Knowing the worth.

An elderly farmer passing by with a small harvest that he was bringing to the buyer, he notice this young lady he knew holding her head down while waiting for her bus, he pulled over and asked her what was wrong, she responded, "Why is it that some treat others as if they're not worth anything?", he smiled and then said, " Young lady see that orange tree over on the other side of the road, go and remove one from it's vine and taste it.", she did, smiling enjoying it's taste, and he said; "it still being on that tree didn't diminish it's taste did it", then he said to her, "being left in an originated setting for a time doesn't remove or eliminate what's inside, and good fruit can't be actually appreciated when the one doing the tasting has bitterness as his/her taste bud" (UN-able to understand/appreciate whats good).

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-15-2011. James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

To great a risk not to act.

There are times when because of your taking a stance against what you think to be necessary, it causes you to be seen as if you are either negative toward others or subject to attack by those whom you think would be the first to understand and know the reason for your decision concerning what ever stance you've taken, I believe we are in a time in where there is a culture that's without the understanding and are void for feeling of the value of life (including their own), I at what ever time I believe something or someone to be a treat or avenue for harm to myself, family and those I'm in some way responsible for; then gear up to what I think to be the best way for preventing potential fall out or being targeted, I am aware that I may sometime be wrong about some things I see to be a chance for causing these evils, but I would rather apologize then later realize my not having taken a stance allowed this thing to happen, I also believe that when anyone allow themselves to not do and in what ever way stand against those that do because of their wanting to spare some other's feeling, they should ask themselves which choice would result in the lesser damage.

Written by: James Joseph.
 "Copyright 11-14-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Non resisting

How is it that a soothing sound or image of many different colors can cover evil that's embedded for the demise of it's acceptors, and the ears of those being target for disrespect and degrading label seem not to have on radar what has entered it's airspace, lets say if the slave owners of yesterday had access to the methods of today for gathering people in great masses by way of captivating sound, colors that spins bright and leaders which has no history of being led, It would be as a slave willingly lining up for being whipped and enjoying being damaged because of the whip been sugar coated, willie lynch would had felt as being in heaven if he would had been originator of this mind-set on that date in Virginia in 1712.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-11-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Some decision-making has not the comfort for time.

There is going to have to be a stand in position of authority in the home (place of rest/comfort) and what ever place necessary, reason being; the allowing of what has become reason for so much misery, harm, being materially and physically violated has come by way of the relaxing of rule and regulations because of feeling for not making others UN-comfortable and or their accompaniment (friend & associate), I've seen and have saw what this mind-set can cause in the altering of  good solid family life and or relationship for as being in the negative, there has to be the going back to when a man,women control the activities and structure to be where they are head of domain (regardless of who's feelings is disturb), we sometimes allow what we known to be a recipe for disaster because we don't want to in any way offend the other that posses this same authority when there is not an agreement concerning certain matter, I do understand we all sometimes differ in reason for resolving things, but when it comes to where harm or death can result by reason of the what ever situation is in dispute, we have not the comfort of time for not doing what's needs be done regardless of what ever result's as fall out, I as a man that loves his wife, kids, grand kids and all others who has any tangibleness we me; I refuse to become victim by result of not standing in place I believe to be commission through being co-head of the home.

If the truth be told, most of this craziness occur because those of us that should be in place are out of place, and the result is us being in the place we now stand!

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-10-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Is this the way for success or destruction?

This is a writing that may be only comprehended by those with spiritual awareness, reason being; most evil is deceptively hidden to fleshly way for wisdom, conversation by those today that has attach to this mind -set of know it all and refuse to allow themselves to be instructed or guided in the only way for what I believe to be completely understanding the way of life (truth and honesty), it's to those that posses this wisdom; is as being able to see and read strips above the heads of those in conversation, today's way for blinding and potentially destroying most is to keep them ignorant to the forces (evil spirits) targeting them, when for what ever reason there is not in place the ability for discernment you witness what is commonly seen in today's society, those being deceived, harm and or ruin  by what was given access through their desires, I have and will continue to try and bring to the awareness of those that are family members and all others who are accepting of this gesture, I'm sure there are others who feel as I do and are deeply disturb by the lost and loosing of those who are with out the knowledge for escaping this what I believe to be with out doubt purpose for destroying the intended structured path for actual living.

 Written by : Coach James Joseph'
"Copyright 11-9-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Now you know who you are.

Hello to all of you young ladies, and hopefully something I say in my writing will help some of you to be able to journey through life with out most of the problems you encounter, reason being; there sometimes are cost when attention isn't given to wise counsel and it causes one to be deprived of good guidance that's able to block and protect against potential evils that causes misery, ruin and even deceitful placement for death, I know its a hard saying; but its what not being said that's allowing most of you to be caught up in so much unnecessary mishaps, hurts, mistakes, I believe if you were to known and understand the actual value and worth that you posses it would cause you to not so easily fall victim to being treated in the many disrespected manner or accepting less then what you should, that being; things and personal relationship, I know some of you believe us older folks are out of touch with what you call the times, in some cases that may be true, but it also allows us to not be touched with the miseries, sexual deceases, and hardships brought on by adapting to the ways of this time, loving and caring adults aren't about trying to control your lives by doing their best to instruct you in the ways of life, it's just the opposite; we're doing what we known to be the way for you not to loose control of your life, there's something every female should know and that is; your value and worth and you should do your very best in remembering that along with making sure others do also, you may not know or believe this, but there was a moment in time past you were target for attack because of your power,worth and value, by way of your desire to listen to promises or visual deceptiveness (eye candy) which causes one to loose what's they already own trying to attain what is really purpose for your demise, there's still good looking snakes that are your main attacker/deceiver, but they're no longer on their belly's, they now have two legs.

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Believe me young lady; if you get it together he will to when he realize there want be any togetherness. Love! God Bless!!

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-9-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Temporary fixture isn't completely fixed.

When others come to see and or realize whom one really is and in that moment he/she is overcome with great discomfort because of their now being exposed for not being of the character he/she project for what ever reason, he/she may even apologize or do what's necessary to numb this moment of discomfort, but it want and can't release him/her from this state, the only release to true comfort and joy is to allow God to purge him/her from deep inside their soul where the root for this trait lies.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-8-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!

Who could believe that when it's that moment in time where because of a kept recording of time there are celebrations, and the one (he/she) is showered with gifts and glories of many kind, but there was a time when because of this same occurrence the one who's evidence of kept recording brought and give gifts to those whom attended and even those who didn't and even until this date, I guess there has being those put down here for reason of showing us what the true meaning of birthdays are, and certain persons when raised in obedience for purpose their lives again allow us this so valuable and necessary means for delivery of gifts from above, which allows many who willingly receive to be shower in it's glories, I can say with out doubt myself and family has witness this occurrence again through the life of a pastor/friend and a man that walks honorable in his privileged position as a man and ambassador for God, him being; Pastor Fred Luter, Jr. Happy birthday Pastor/friend Fred Luter, Jr, Happy birthday!!!!!!

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Written by: James Joseph.
"Copyright 11- -2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Removal of the main link.

If the truth be told and even with the denying of this fact by many, when a break has occurred in the family unit it causes that which turns and motivates toward a certain destination for purpose to be stopped and not possible for movement toward purpose, and this throws everything that has it means in this union to be as you see things today, that being; links join to other chains that's not of the same origin (good and honest) which movement is now going in ways that were not as initially intended, where the main link (trust in God for instruction) in families has been removed for what ever reason, it causes the chain to break and  not be able to turn around for generating movement toward destiny/purpose.                                                                                                                                            

Convinced even yourself.

OK, lets say you're one that has set him/herself out to be the greatest of those that can fool others into believing any and everything you wish, and now you have others looking at and treating you in ways that's fit for whom you pretend to be, and your clever deceptiveness has convinced others that you are this person projected, if the truth be told; you are very good at this, reason being; proven by your acceptance of the glories generated by this deceptiveness which shows you've even fooled yourself.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-5-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Someone that dosen't exist.

When game is being run by preconceived desire to gather to yourself something belonging to another regardless of what harm is caused from acquiring it and your method is visually projecting yourself to be that what you're not nor can ever become while on the path you've chosen, that being; deceptive in character, every road has an end, every person a limited time for being in a place or situation, but you will always be with you, OK this is when you may have to start lifting weights it's about to get heavy; you may for a time fool others into believing what you set out to do, and you may gain your objective (monetary, physical, attention) for a short time, but there will come a time for accountability, and what ever means you use for supporting who you pretend to be,, has no effect on conscience, and that my friend; will always be with you no matter how much you try to silence it, it will either cause you to amend your deceptive ways or you may just destroy yourself trying to silence it.

By: Chshock.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-5-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Spoken out of existence.

I would hope that those of you reading this pleases not take it out of context and understand it for what it truly is, just an expression of the moment. With my knowing it can't and couldn't ever be possible' that is; If I was the creator of man/women and all of the other things spoken into existence, I would be so sad and heart broken resulting from looking down and seeing what I had created for pleasure to mine eyes has become and the path being follow by great numbers of them are far from my intended purpose, just a synopsis of what caused this concern; when I see how greatness and favor are right before their eyes (man/women) and because of their preferential (cause for discomfort/hurt to others) desire they stomp on that which is more valuable then any riches or success they could ever attain, that being;  family and the elderly who has become target for disdain and disrespect along with many other evils, UN willingness to walk in obedience toward those which posses true and fair authority and they being treated with UN imaginable disrespect, I believe I would need all of my power for being patience and forgiving to not discontinue my creation by speaking the words !! All begone!!.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-3-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Reason why or origin of.

With all of this evil happening around us and these so call committees for searching out the cause and developing ways to combat most of what's being experienced by society, when sometimes the platform members themselves in some way seed's the growth for these occurrences, the answer for fixing and identifying lies with most of the community members, reason stated; if you were to get a parent, law enforcement officer, clergy person and average political leader and put this committee group on a platform in front of all of us, give every one in the meeting a mirror (including us) then ask the question of what may be the reason for things to be as they are and how can they be change for the good of us all, then the request for all should be look in your mirror.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-2-2011 James Joseph. 'All rights reserved."

When under attack.

This blog is specifically written to those of you that find yourselves under attack without cause and witnessing those you've helped in some way join themselves with your attackers, there are those that has and will come against you because they themselves desire to be recipient of what ever gift/skill and favor which God has blessed you with, and they also believe themselves to be more then who you are but up-set and disturb about your place in society's eye, they communicate with you in smile knowing they really wish for your demise, they will try and duplicate your every doing which in the end will expose them for who they truly are, I can tell you from experience if you fret not nor entertain their attacks on your character, God Himself will deal with them in a way that will UN-cover their deceptiveness for all to see, when God has your back nothing or no one can impede your front.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-1-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Deceived by thoughts

My paying attention to what going on in today's society allows me to see and hear the suffering being endured by so many,, I have to sometimes wonder about those that for what ever reason who's responsible for and continue to fuel the hardship and or misery they're now in, there are so many that would be please just to be back where they once were in exchange for where they are now.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 11-1-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Done in by their on weapon.

A young lady was speaking with her grandparent concerning why some people change toward those that's done good by them and why they do their best to degrade them verbally with others, her grandparent reply; when anyone target's those that are doing what's proven to be good an honest toward them or others, and they seek to cause them harm of any kind by lying to others as reason for trying to destroy their reputation because of dis-agreement an or dis-like, they themselves will fall victim to the weapon (tongue) they've chosen for attacking the intended victim, the grandparent added, those that are doing whats good an fair toward others should expect to be attack by evil, even from some of those you are trying to help, but no weapon form against you can be prosperous, that same weapon is some how use against the owner.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-30-2011  James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Up-root.

There is a medicine for what is and with out doubt has to be dealt with, that being lives hidden in lies and encased in bodies of cosmetic (cover up) stature, there are so many of us that for what ever reason carry around enormous burden which causes us to live and act below our intended purpose, we aren't able to accept or give that which is real and because of the weight from this misery which we ourselves know exist deep down in our souls even though we mask it with our cosmetic life style, even with the evidence or our not being able to in timely manner sustain in relationship or domain in places (job/place, where resident) we stay this course which is destine for UN-happiness,ruin and potential destruction for ourselves and those we deceive by reason of us being in this state. I believe for it to be possible for correcting or putting in place that which has so many trapped in this realm, there has to be the realizing that stepping into truth is and the only way (medicine) for cutting out the root of this so unnecessary evil.

Written by James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-29-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Then and now.

There was a time when neighborhood streets were used for water sport, community football games, skate mobile, foot races and jump rope competition and children marching beating on garbage can tops while creating their on neighborhood parades, now those same streets or being use for immature minded persons (young & old) for speeding, drive by shooting, drug dealing spots (while park along curve), young people being chased and gun down, small children being exhibited in inappropriate dance gesture coached by their young parent and sometimes accompany in such activity, most neighborhood streets may bear the same name but the activities of this time has definitely changed.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-28-2011 James Joseph, "All rights reserved."

In a bad place.

When one is so entrenched in lying as being a common way for communication and is now themselves believing it to be true, he/she has enter into a state of need for concern and hopefully acceptance to the help of those that realize the danger of them being in such a bad place (mentally Un-aware).

Written by; Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-28-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

The other side of the nickle.

It's fast coming time where we who for what ever reason that knows not things are changing will witness or has UN-knowingly witness the evidence of this change by seeing the way life is being shifted from it's commonality, there is now those that are trying to hold on to things, people, places and anything else tangible to what one believe to be his/her soul possession, Let me give you some facts you can't dispute; Nature is causing a shift in boundaries (places) and greed and all other evil perpetrated against the owner/owners has been resulting in incarceration of the violator, those  that believe themselves to be wise are being confused by their own so called genius, you can only surf over a wave head on when the wind has not release it's full strength, there has now been a changing in the wind and He (God) that originated and controls it has change it's blowing. There is now a change at the door of life which will and has puzzled many,  I believe for one to be able to understand or be mentally and or physically sustained in this time of shifting is for to attach themselves to those that have for what ever reason been already tested in or instructed through wisdom for such time as this, the coin has been flip and is now on the other side of the nickle.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-27-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Reason for.

I would like to publicly thank God,  my daughter and her husband for allowing such a blessing to come into this world and I pray that they and all that will some how play a tangible part in her ( Smile's) life through out her rearing and journey toward her purpose destiny will be those that has attached themselves to God's way for living and doing things. I find myself to be blessed with such an magnificent gift (jewel) in the form of my granddaughter (Smiley) and with the inclusion of my so many other  great and grandchildren (yes I did say great and others), the best part about this recent blessing, I can use her to make the others jealous and walk in line, lol!!, yes; grandparent's do take these advantages lol!!, Those of you out there that has been privileged with the blessing of family, I say to you; do your very best to be the person that loves, care and protect them to the best of your ability , even if it means giving your life, If we would accept the true meaning of family we will know there is no other greater blessing.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-26-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Get out of His (God) way.

I must say even doing my young age and up into the current, I've yet to see any that hasn't been recipient of the consequences concerning their actions or decisions made against others rather they be good or bad (including myself). When anyone think they want be held accountable for what ever wrong they purposely do toward others they are sadly mistaken and living in a realm of deceptive atmosphere which is the soul reason for what we see today in these believed to be non -accountable life styles and UN-Godly mind-sets, I 've also learned over the years and through obedience to those who were much wiser then myself to not try and return what ever wrong done you back toward those that targeted you, because you then allow yourself to either get caught up in situation that can cause you even more hurt/misery then they can ever cause, and it also Gets in God's way for handling it in the way only He knows how for resolve, I believe that when one is going through the what ever storms life has in store for each and every one of us, there should be an willingness to ride it out or place yourself under the authority of obedience to those that knows the path and person (God)  in charge for purpose.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-23-2011. James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

What puporse have you align yourself to?

If you have any knowledge about the actual mechanics of life you would realize there's but only two paths for purpose, one being  the wish that your life be good and abundantly prosperous and the other path; your being seek out for target of ruin, destruction and death.

written by Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-21-2011 James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

Align yourself with those who really know God.

There are so many getting caught up on the bad side of what I see today to be twisted times, It has to or should cause you some concern about the way things and some people now are, reason being; their involvement and or willing acceptance of being hard heartily can and has caused fall out which effects or potentially target all of us in some tangible way, those of us who are not acceptance to this mind-set and for what ever reason struggle to understand a way to combat against this, I suggest you seek out those who know who God truly is and are of the knowledge and ability to talk with Him concerning and or instruct you in how to for combating against, and not in any way yourselves be deceived into mentally domain in these twisted ways for journey through life. I really believe that their isn't any who possess common sense isn't in some way disturb by what is happening in our homes, community's and Country in the current, we need to pray for the continual sustaining of those that know who God really is and align ourselves under their tutoring and be about the business of combating against this craziness.

Written by; Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-20-2011 James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

Wisdom.

The law of life gives one place for resting in an right answer (place of truth), and many places are given for stopping in an wrong answer.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-19-2011 James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

What other way is there.

There is with out doubt but two avenues in life which paths will be traveled while one is alive,  the avenue for actual necessity and the other of want which is generated by desire, and neither has an exiting accept for by way of the other..

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 1019-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

There's freedom in truth.

If most people was to go and find a place of quiet with it just being themselves in that space, for about two days an open up their mind to all they believe to be cause for their being or not being where they wish to be, reflect back on all of the lies, truths and what ever other reason for being in their current state, what do you suppose they would uncover, and if this was you (including myself); could you honestly reveal how much was caused by you and not those you blamed?

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-18-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

NSF (insufficient funds).

I at times find myself  on the verge of getting a little angry about the out come of what I think to be a no brainier concerning the time and effort I put toward others lives, who for what ever reason don't seem to care or appreciate my sacifarcies and commitments even sometimes at the expense and time it takes from my family, and this has and can caused one to want to throw in the tower and return the gestures back toward those you really love and care for, being the man I am and because of the wisdom and support I've attained over the years through trials and tribulation I bring myself to the realization that I myself was once with out the knowledge and or wisdom for being able to appreciate an understand when others were doing their best toward good for me, I guess I can sum it up to as not having a required amount (enough sense) in the bank making it NSF ( insufficient funds), thanks to God and with the inclusion of my wife which gets only part of the credit for sometimes keeping me on point (remember I said only part!) lol!!, I usually get back on track and continue on what I believe to be my path for purpose.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-17-2011. "All rights reserved."

A train can't travel any place with out being based on a track.

Lets say that we who perceive ourselves to be smart and is with out question knowledgeable about every thing we need to know concerning the way and actualities of life, if a train can't travel any place with out being based on a track, how is it that an engine regardless of it sizes strength and beauty can ever get even a half a mile without wiping out what ever is in it's reckless path and the destruction of it also, if those of us that think we are with out need of nature's way for travel to places that can only be gotten to by God's design,, are sadly mistaken; if there was not the female (track) how would it even be possible for a man (train) to be place on the track when there has never been an entrance through a tunnel (women's womb), if the train has being privileged (Blessed by God) to travel the track and the conductor (common sense) knows not how to travel at the proper speed for carefully arriving to set destination (destiny point) all that's being pulled by the engine (children & family) is in danger for a potential crash, (something to think about huh!!).


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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-17-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Sadly having to face it.

After all the years of my doing what I think to be my best with and being around others, I do and sadly accept the fact that there are many that has and will be lost to the consequences for their choice of life style, and those that for what ever reason who don't adhere to good and wise counsel has great potential for being collateral casualty and causing UN-warranty stress to those that love them. I can't and want say that even those that appear to be living a good and moral life don't and want be victim of evil happening, but what I can say; if it's what God allows He has his reason and what we may not like or understand want and could not ever change His purpose. I 've just in the past few years up until the current witness young people that has know clue nor desire to know what life is really about or it's worth and value, only to be caught up in the penalties of their doing at an appointed time and sadly to possibly end up in eternal damnation rather they believe it to be true or not, I will say this also; anyone who believe themselves to be able to go through this life with out God (through the acceptance of Jesus Christ) has been deceived into believing something that can never be possible, maybe believing themselves to be in knowledge that their way for life is correct and has known need for accepting any other guidance. I find myself even with my understanding of I can't and want change the mind-set or ways of many causes my feeling the hurt and sadness concerning the above mention, I do my best to pray for them and get out of God's way in what ever it is He has purpose for them rather it be in blessing or what ever.

Written by Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-16-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Feel as if in another world.

I can honestly say, that my being still alive in this today's time and witnessing the mind-set of  a great number of society's culture (young and old including member's in my families), If not for my belief and faith in God it would be almost impossible for me to believe there could in anyway be chance for most that are living and acting as they do today to be delivered or come out of these preferential (disrespectful verbally and attire) over principal life styles. I remember and now with out doubt know it to have been a blessing coming up as I did and under the guidance of those who knew the importance of rearing kids in the way that didn't allow them these freedoms as of today's rearing, which has resulted in most of this what we see today, for those of you who may for your what ever reason disagree; compare the people that came up in the 50's and earlier to those of today, even with all of the disadvantages and hardships back then, there was not this vast disrespect for themselves and or others. I find that even when some today know their way of thinking and living is out of order and causes themselves and those that love them great discomfort and miseries, they still for what ever reason choose to remain in this mind-set. Most adults like myself grieve because for what we know to be the consequential end for this way (choice) for living.

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Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-10-2011. James Joseph. "All rights reserve."

Daughters/granddaughters and young ladies.

First of all I would like to say hello!,  those of you that are of the age and ability to understand knows that today's society allows you great freedom for decision making, It is my prayer that you open your mind's eye an accept what actually is before you make a decision on the things and people you pursue/desire, this will allow you to better see what's potentially awaiting on the back side of your choices, when a young lady allows herself to be caught  up in a mind-set which believes being a certain age or in a relationship automatically validates them for allowing or pursuit of sexual activity, and in some cases being as owned or control by another, young ladies when you allow yourselves to be put in this situation rather by choice or disdaining the advice of those who have the authority to instruct you in this area,  you then enter into this behavior pattern of knowing it all, overly exposing yourselves in dress attire and attaching yourselves to persons and conversation which bear no good or meaningful outcome, you open yourselves up to various sexual diseases, pregnancy and many others possible evils which target you for ruin and destruction. I  along with those who love you wish you great and productive lives, which could and can be attain by your being obedient to the instructions of those that are of the authority to pass to you their wisdom.

This blog is dedicated to my daughters, granddaughters and all other young ladies who deserve being properly guided.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-8-2011 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Ears that are seal.

Those of you out there that's allowing yourselves to be treated in ways that are far from proper and respected, are setting yourselves up for miseries and hardship and if it's caused by your not giving ear to advice by those that love and care about you, you should reserve some time for being in an area or place where you can reflect back to those that are in your lives and how things concerning them and yourselves actually are, and if you see it to be not in proper order, you should find or accept the advice for the being able to eliminate this UN-necessary discomfort. The choices one makes in there lives usually paves the road for what way is to be traveled.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-7-2011 James Joseph. " All rights reserved."

If you knew the reason for a problem (would you fix it)?

From time to time I hear people saying this or that is being allowed because of someone not having the knowledge or ability to fix it, when there is someone that makes you aware that he/she has desire to become relationally involve with you, lets say you're in the process of getting yourself highly educated and or ready to travel different places or seeking any other goal and he/she has not one thing in common or understand or support your desire/desires, how is it and why should you maybe because of a momentary feeling of loneliness or God forbid (sexual urge) allow a beginning of what could never benefit you as for being successful and happy and especially with one that couldn't find his/her way around the block with a vocal compass. Now that you know  the reason for the problem (would you fix it)

"Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 10-7-2011  James Joseph. "All rights reserved."
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