Inherited wisdom.

Coming up in the fifties and having my life sustained up onto this current moment through the grace of God. I can remember my parents doing the times of my growing up some how knowing just about every thing I had done are was doing and who I was doing it with, and in my mind I had believed myself to be smarter then them, but in all reality I was dumb as those who now have those same thoughts. I was spared from most of the traps that awaited me because of that wisdom they possessed and today I benefit from by way of inheritance through being obedient in child hood, yes; I like they back then; know a great deal of what my kids and grand kids are into and who with.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-30-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved." Inherited

Why don't you know me.

Before I introduce myself let me give you a little description of my character make up; I am into doing what I perceive to be whats right by way of my adhering to moral way of living, I refuse to go after or hold on to people/thing which artificially sustains me in so call happiest or and success. I am in this today's time shunt and disdain by a great many, young and old. I also appear to be boarded on extinct and not needed.What sadden me most is that; my being the only true way to most goals and productive desire are instead being travel by way of winding road of deception... Oh! by the way my name is common sense.



Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-27-2010. James Joseph."All rights reserved."

From the cage are the grave. (to late for me now,doesn't have to be for YOU!).

Man I never knew these people felt so much love for me, I can remember walking are running pass them lots of times and they never as much looked my way. I can,t believe these people showed up just so they can be seen sporting their attire and material possessions. Hopefully my friends and associates, some who are reason for my being in this state (along with my choices) would use this moment to guide them on to a path that offers productive living and long life. I wish I could have understood then what I know now, and that is; my parent/parents and grandparents way of disciplining me was for that of my own good, motivated out of their love for me. (To late for me now, doesn't have to be for YOU!).

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-27-2010 James Joseph. 'All rights reserved."

"All of us are responsible for choices we make and some of us for choices we allow others to make that are under our power of authority in which all bare consequences"

Where is the path I'm to follow?

Why have you not asked me whats the problem, but you spend these enormous sums of money on people who cares nothing about me or my community, who can never find the answer concerning my plot! OK, here a synopsis; When the male figure who's responsible for my being here can't be found and my female passageway is out clubbing trying to recapture what should have been history when I came on the scene, political leaders creating laws and making deals (cutting funds for education and building incarceration structures) for my demise, clergy persons deceiving those that look to them for spiritual guidance. When you fix these things then you'll be able to fix me.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-25-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Returning them to the system.

A slave one day was given twenty four hours of freedom to do and enjoy in anyway he/she wanted to. Twenty three hours passed and the slave master pulls up in this old beat up horse driven wagon requesting he/she get in to return back to the system, there then was this loud scream No,no, noooo!!!! I have one more hour!!!!

Parent/adult when your child or any youngster request three hours of your time to talk to you about their concerns of today's occurrences and you in the second hour are called to your electrical games and or gossip, going out in the streets (clubs) the next thing you will hear or should think; , No,no,noooo!!!!! I've have one more hour!!!!!

Written by; Coach James Joseph
"Copyright 12-24-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Divine gift.

God has and is giving two sectors His gift of life for certain purpose, He's given the fool he/she time to change their way or living the fool's life, He's given the wise he/she instruction on how not to become a fool and live their lives for His 's purpose. Truth be told ; He has and is giving each sector His 's gift of love which doesn't discriminate against either sector.

Written by Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-23-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserve."

Excuses for being annihilated.

When do comparing one horrific crime against another because of cultural differences, even when there is evidence of non identical rush for judgement and punishment makes it 's perpetrator worthy of compassion and sympathy. (This is in know way a siding with such injustice).

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-22-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Conversation with my mirror.

Before the conversation gets started there is an agreement to the other reflected in the mirror to be in acceptance of the truth.

Questions to be answer only by reflection in the mirror!!!

A. What kind of person have I been in the passed five years?

B. Am I worthy of the respect and attention I expect from others?

C. Knowing who I am would I date/marry someone exactly like me?

D. Do I know and am I pleased with who I am?

E. Have I used or taken advantage of those who has shown me and my family love ,care and concern?

F. Am I in anyway selfish and or just don't care who gets hurt as long as I get what I want?

G. Has my decisions of lately caused discomfort/grief to myself and or family (children)?

H. Is most of my time of value spent with those who truly love me?

I. Am I the kind of person my kids and others are pleased to be around?

J. When not at work am I with-in the voice range of my kids or whom ever dependent on me if needed?

Written by Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-21-2010 James Joseph." All rights reserved."

Don't have the sense of a fool.

Even a fool has enough sense to known he/she has to follow certain instructions to continue existing, so what seem to be the problem with us so call wise people concerning the combating and or controlling of this craziness which surrounds us.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-21-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Holding your ground keeps one from being buried in it.

It has reach the scale of ultimate madness, that is ; parent/guardian are person of authority not taking their places or equipped to curve this culture of youth violence. When we continue to allow bad behavior and disrespect thats going on in our homes by those we are responsible for rearing in the right and moral way, and the blame could and should be laid at some of our feet. Those of us, and we know who we are, we love to party, reality TV, give insane time to being on our electric gadgets involved in games and conversation which has no attachment with reality nor the enhancing of one's or their families lives, Being away from the home in the times of our kids ages when the widow for teaching and controlling are at that moment. We have better as adults learn to take our places are become use to seeing ,,where our kids once was, has become empty spaces. It has to be some sort of bomb been dropped over this City/State which effect some of our brains which causes us to not do what needs to be done when it comes to combating this so visual problem. It is my sincere prayer that God convicts our conscience to the level that even in our so call fun time that it causes us so much discomfort that we are force to get into our places of purpose or become dam right miserable. (How many more must die before us as mentors began to live as we are purpose)!

Written by Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-21-2010 James Joseph. a"All rights reserved."

Make me understand

- How is it females old and young can glorify music that target them as being hood rats and bitches.




- what makes any one follow after and praise any one and or anything that sustains it's existence on their misery and potential demise.



- why would any adult who suppose to be an adult give in to a kid way of thinking for controlling and running their home.



- why would any employee continually treat their employees unfair and expect them to act as if every thing is OK on the job.



- why would any one allowed any one to lead them that don't allow questions on how they intend to do so.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-20-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

Symptons of ill-responsibility.

A. World at the brink of war.

B. Authority heads and clergy people accepting bribes, sexual favors and drugs.

C. Parent/guardian willfully abandoning their position of responsibility for rearing and caring for those in- trusted in their care.

D. Children been left with those who turn out to be their abuser and or executioner.

E. Politicians and law enforcement personnel breaking laws they themselves pen ed and punish others for doing as they themselves do..

F. Adults seeking fun in all hours of the night while leaving their kids home along unattended or with other immature persons.

G. Judging others when you yourself aren't on point with your own life.

Written by: Coach James Joseph'
"Copyright 12-19-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

The ulimate question?!!!!!!!!!!

There is a question that has been given birth in today's time, and that only you can answer, and there is no way of escaping the truth unless there has been a crash so low that common sense has no place in the mind it once rested in, that is; what have you traded your kids/yourself in for, and is it an even exchange?

Written by; Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-17-2010 James Joseph."All rights reserved."

A sometimes human reaction.

In marriage/relationship certain discomforting sensations causes one to see and realize what truly is, love and numbness by way of pharmaceutical and or selfish desire cause one to blind the mind's eye to such revelation.

written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12-14-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

"Being able to identify certain things and normal fall out by reason of; helps to not condemn one's self from certain feelings"

Prayer for a return to-

I pray for a return for the mind- set in which there was an ability to give and expect the receiving of what was to be good (humane) harvest, by reason of; Adults/parent were those who by way of knowing their worth and authority and would in no way give into this madness of allowing a kid are anyone the freedom of disrespecting them for reason of trying to be their friend or sparing the feeling of discomfort for reason of necessary discipline by way of verbal/control spanking or both.

Photo by: The Marklar's photostream (200).

Written by: Coach James Joseph.

"Copyright 12-12-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."

If the shoe fits (and I sincerely hope it's tight) wear it!

When there is an allowing of those (Children) that are in- trusted to one's authority for being reared (nourished, taught, discipline) and there are short coming of any sort which allows the inappropriate dressing (attire) and verbal non-respectable form of communication to seed in the home; It is there, where roots are spawned and given branches which extends out into society where the leaves fall among others, which causes the deterioration in which we now see. In other words; those who are responsible for the farming has not the tools for planting seed in fertile ground and for tending to weeds which chokes off good growth and destroys possibility for great harvest.

Written by: Coach James Joseph. sincerely
"Copyright 12-12-2010

Amazing times.

Truth is; There are those who have set and are now sitting in judgement of others, who are and will be their eventual jail mates.

Written by: Coach James Joseph.

"Copyright 12-5-2010 James Joseph."All rights reserved."

Is that really him/her.

There was a time when a person could protect their kids from most of the bad choices in companionship/marriage. Parent/parents or guardian would meet and talk with who ever was interested in their kid, face to face (for character searching), and there were not these numbers in mistakes as the choices in these Botox characterization..



Written by: Coach James Joseph.
"Copyright 12/1/2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved.""

A place of safety.

Now that male/female is at a place where they need to be and away from person are thing which caused hardship/misery; It doesn't stop the being of who they are, but its dose stop where they were.

Written by: Coach James Joseph
"Copyright 12-1-2010 James Joseph. "All rights reserved."